We all have aims and goals in our lives. There is a necessity for them. For example, I cannot live a life with no goals and watch tv series, sleep 10 hours a day. Though this looks fine for a day, 3 days, a week, enough! But this makes me carry unnecessary burden on my mind. Also due to lack of social circle, many people fall under depression and live life in despair.
Step 1: Think about the worst possible outcome of the present situation.
Step 2: Accept it.
Step 3: See the possible actions you can do to make the outcomes less unfavorable.
On one side there is Napolean Bonaparte who had fame, power and money but couldn't recollect even six happy days of his life. On the other hand we have Hellen Keller, who was dumb and deaf but described life as the most beautiful thing.
We must keep ourselves engaged in some activities. Keep yourself busy. Just make sure that they are productive, require focus and enhance your creativity. For people who aren't that fond of reading(Look who's talking), they must give it a shot! Its worth it. Their have been 1000s of generations that have passed and have left their experiences. Its very good to read about random stuff daily.
This was what I learnt from my mother this December. She was noticing my behavior and finally made me realized where I was going wrong. I will definitely try to live by this and make my life much much stress-free. Following is the video she whatsapped me.
Pro Tip: We must remember the people who are close to us and make us happy. I feel thankful to my parents and close ones for being my moral support and feel blessed to have a perfectly complete life. :) No matter in how much trouble I am, there are people who will stand besides me. Trust is the most beautiful thing after love. Give it to people and never break it.